Sep 26

How is Scientific Research reporting on Time?

How we make sense of Time

I trust you will excuse the deliberate ambiguity in the title and look forward to hearing your thoughts on the topic. I have been making time to catch up on my reading and have just finished reading an interesting article on research into how we “make sense” of time in an old copy of American Scientific Mind.

Reference is made to how all cultures appear to use spatial metaphors to express time. You may have noticed an example in my first paragraph.

The authors, Cooperrider and Nunez describe the most common types of spatial metaphor in a way that students of NLP will find familiar.

“Using spatial metaphors, we imagine time in two ways: as a path we walk with future events in front and past behind or as a sequence we view externally, as in summer, fall, winter, spring.”

When teaching time based techniques in NLP there is a value in being able to reference scientific research.  The common use of the above definition in NLP seems to have escaped the notice of the scientific community however I feel it is essential that we remain willing to reference science our work.

The article also suggests that writing can have a priming effect on the spatial perception of time pointing to how cultures examined matched direction of time to direction of writing.

In NLP, we have long discussed the spatial orientation of time and when eliciting individual timelines place emphasis on calibrating the spatial layout of our “client’s” timeline. When teaching this I place emphasis on how easily the inexperienced Practitioner can inadvertently influence the client either linguistically or by indicating a direction unconsciously.

This article does provide some useful data for NLP Practitioner and NLP Trainers. Taking note of such research can help us to make links between the approaches we use and empirical evidence to support what we do.

Melody Cheal, MSc
NLP Master Trainer

Links to reference article in Scientific American Mind

Sep 05

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A lot of people who would like to be an NLP Trainer have been asking us for PSiNLP Trainer’s Training 2019 dates… and here they are:


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Aug 02

Hypnosis Trainer’s Training Class of 2018

The weather was amazing, the students were brilliant and we had a lot of fun!

In 2018 we decided to offer Hypnosis Trainer’s Training as a stand alone event and we attracted a very talented group of hypnotherapists all ready to take the next step in their development. Many had attended the previous week of Advanced Ericksonian Health and Healing and were thus fully primed.

To give you a flavour of what went on here is a picture diary of Hypnosis Trainer’s Training 2018.


Jul 29

What happened at Training Trances Advanced Hypnosis 2018?

This year we decided to focus on Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy Training with two  advanced programmes to take our students to the next level. Students travelled from USA, Croatia and from across the UK.

The Co-Trainer’s for both programmes were Julie Silverthorn, Master Trainer of Hypnosis and NLP, and Melody Cheal, Master Trainer of NLP and Trainer of Hypnosis. Both Trainers bring with them a wealth of knowledge and experience. They both hold two University Degrees in Psychology, plus a wealth of other psychology based qualifications.

Julie has worked extensively helping  people boost their natural ability to heal conditions such as  Cancer. Melody has specialised in working with survivors of childhood abuse, a major cause of PTSD.

During the first week they introduced the students to the power of Hypnosis to assist in healing issues such as Cancer, Auto-immune diseases and PTSD.  Content was drawn from the original works of Milton Erickson, Positive Psychology, latest research and sources such as Bernie Seigel and Deepak Chopra.

Students had the opportunity to observe Julie working directly with a client who is currently in the process of healing from Cancer. The case study included three observed sessions with the client demonstrating what information to gather and then how to work supportively co-creating processes that moved the client forward.

The second week was devoted to training the next generation of Hypnotherapy Trainers and thus spreading more resources around the world.


May 11

Are you a Hypnotherapist wanting to take an Advanced Course this year or maybe you want to be certified as a Hypnosis Trainer?

If you answered yes to either of those questions read on…

This Summer we are hosting Julie Silverthorn, USA Master Trainer of Hypnosis and co-author of the best selling book, Training Trances(rated in the top ten books on Hypnosis in the world).

Julie will be co-training with Melody Cheal, NLP Master Trainer and Hypnosis Traineron two courses scheduled for July 2018.

The first course is Training Trances: Advanced Master Certification in Ericksonian Health, Healing & Deep Trance Work. It will run over six days and includes topics such as PTSD, Coping with Cancer, Auto Immune Diseases and Ericksonian Procedures for Pain Control.

This course is already Accredited with American Board of Hypnotherapyand will form part of an Advanced Diplomawith the General Hypnotherapy Standards Council.

14thto 19thJuly 2018

£1495 Early bird rate is available until 31stMay 2018

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 The second six day training is Hypnosis Trainer’s Trainingfor those of you wishing to run your own accredited training courses in Hypnosis. On successful completion of the evaluation process you will be eligible to apply to become a member of the American Board of Hypnotherapyand then deliver your own accredited Hypnotherapy Training Courses.

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Mar 03

Calibrating vulnerability in clients or students

As an NLP Trainer, our ability to recognise vulnerability in our students is a key skill set. So exactly how do you do it while running courses such as NLP Practitioner? This is just as important for the NLP Practitioner, Hypnotherapist and Therapist when working with clients.

One place to start is with a conscious decision to start calibrating a baseline for each student or client. We teach calibration skills on our entry level NLP Training and this is started on the free one day training workshop. This calibration includes processing visual, auditory and kinaesthetic signals from the client.

With larger groups this can be challenging just in terms of sheer numbers. Perhaps a more manageable approach would be to calibrate baselines for the group. As a student moves into a state of vulnerability there will be a ripple effect particularly in those seated nearby.

The baseline is critical because changes in state vary vastly both on the individual level and in terms of group processes. Where one person withdraws and internalises, another may become loud, while yet another response may be to become rigidly controlled. When calibrating the group, you are becoming sensitive to the waves and flow of what becomes a collective consciousness that may match the individual signs or not.

You might recognise that a student is becoming vulnerable by signs of rapport breakdown and separation from others. Or conversely you may see an increased rapport as group members nearby experience unconscious empathy that can be seen as physiological shifts.

The examples above are just that, examples. As an NLP Trainer or NLP Practitioner, remember to stay connected to the concept of NLP as the study of subjective behaviour.

Feb 23

How does Hypnosis benefit conditions such as IBS?

Although most clinical trials involving Hypnosis are small there is mounting evidence that Hypnosis can be beneficial for issues such as pain management, anxiety, depression, sleep disorders, asthma, obesity and psoriasis.

A particularly useful study was carried out by Peter Whorwell of the University of Manchester. He wanted to find out if suffers of irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) would respond to Hypnosis.

The results were very promising and some of the patients were able toreduce the contractions of their bowel and the lining of their bowel became less sensitive to pain. This is something not normally considered to be under conscious control.

As a result of this study the UK’s National Institute for Health and Care Excellence have recognised Hypnosis as a possible treatment for IBS.

Although scientifically it still isn’t clear how Hypnosis works what does seem to be clear are the number of people who seem able to influence parts of their body under Hypnosis. There is a considerable body of anecdotal evidenceof the efficacy of Hypnosis to help with issues such as PTSD and cancer. While it is certain more clinical evidence is needed the power of Hypnosis in healing is very positive.

This summer we are offering you the chance to attend our new Advanced Master Certification in Ericksonian Health, Healing and Deep Trance Work with Julie Silverthorn co-author of Training Trances.

This course is offered with Hypnosis Trainer’s Training so if you want to find out more go to our events page.




Feb 08

How does a Master Trainer start the New Year? Reflections from Julie Silverthorn, International NLP Master Trainer

J Silverthorn webHave you set your goals for the New Year? You always have time to do so….

 Deepak Chopra says, “At the level of the Higher Self  included in the Unconscious Mind in the NLP model) wishes  are born with a fulfillment in mind; problems are linked to solutions and intentions are already connected
to results.” 

What does this mean from an NLP point of view?

It presupposes that whatever we want or desire (our goals and value) is already linked to its actualization at some point in the future.

He teaches a technique called “Seeding your Intention” and every New Year I do this with my own goals and values.

In the past we’ve taught Secret of Creating your Future with Tad James and Discover your Life Course in January so that participants could elicit their goals and values and install them in their future timeline. They would also write them down so they could look back on their successes.

So every year whether I teach one of those seminars or not, I take time to go into a meditative state and visualize my goals. I break them down into personal and business goals and I do them one month at a time. I simply hold the image of my goal in my mind until it begins to dissipate and then I let what’s left of it float down and install itself into my timeline. I have
found over the last twenty years that this yields surprising easy and fulfilling results, even if it doesn’t work out exactly as I had imagined—-sometimes it works out even better!

I then also write my monthly goals down in my journal and check them at the end of the year. All of the research shows that writing down your goals leads to a higher rate of fulfillment!

So here’s to a bright, peaceful and prosperous 2017 from us at PSINLP!

NLP Trainer’s Training 2017

Why sign up early?

Our Early Bird rate saves you £500 on the full rate of NLP Trainer’s Training and includes certification.

You will also get a free audio Neuroenergetics NLP Trainer’s Training co-trained by Julie Silverthorn in USA, worth £345 as a bonus gift.

For those of you wanting to also qualify as a Trainer of hypnosis/hypnotherapy you can access a early bird rate of just £395.

These are just some of the great reasons to join us in 2017, below are a few more ideas to help you make the decision to take your NLP Trainer’s Training with us next year.

15th to 29th July 2017 including 3 day evaluation
What do we offer that makes choosing our programme the right choice for you?

  1. Julie Silverthorn, US Master Trainer, has been involved in developing and delivering NLP Trainer’s Training for over twenty years.
  2. Melody and Joe Cheal, UK Master Trainers, are leading the way in raising the credibility of NLP worldwide. They were both invited onto the International Research Conference Committee after presenting papers on their own NLP research at previous conferences.
  3. All three trainers have Masters Degrees in Psychology as well as extensive NLP experience. This means we bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to the programme from other fields.
  4. Our approach is Humanistic and Person Centred, our interest is in helping people reach their full potential.
  5. For students wishing to engage before the official course date we offer Master Classes and an on-line community.
  6. We provide three NLP Trainer’s Training Certifications: NLP, HNLP and PSiNLP & Hypnotherapy Trainer’s Training Certification.
  7. All our students receive personal attention and high level feedback during the programme directly from our three Master Trainers.
  8. We believe learning is more likely to occur when we are in positive states, so while challenging; our programme is designed to be fun and high energy.
  9. Beyond the programme our students receive ongoing support and mentoring including access to regular practice groups, cpd and supervision.
  10. We also offer a full apprenticeship and personalised mentoring programme for graduates who want support moving to the next level.

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Dec 01

Why NLP Trainers need to know about growth mind sets?

I’ve been revisiting some articles written about growth versus fixed mind sets and considering the relevance to NLP. AS an NLP Trainer understanding these concepts can be really helpful in recognising where student’s and/or clients are in their individual processes.

What are the definitions of each type of mind set?

First, the fixed mind set is characterised by beliefs that skills, qualities and abilities are set in stone and not Jeff Brighton plus TT2015 editedchangeable. Take the example of a person who believes they are unable to do simple a maths problem.

On the face of it the client is presenting with a simple “limiting belief” however if they also have a generalised fixed mind set underpinning this the change work may be more multi layered.

A growth mind set as the name implies allows for growth and development. In other words, a person with a growth mind set accepts that skills, qualities and abilities can be improved with practice, training and experience.

Much of the early study was conducted by Carol Dweck and how a fixed mind set can be seen as a mental block that can be reinforced or removed. Of particular interest was her work around praise and the impact it had on children in school.

She reported that children praised as being bright or talented were far more likely to give up if faced with a challenge. This kind of praise appeared to foster a fixed mind set. Children praised for effort, hard work and perseverance were more likely to keep going if presented with a challenge (indicating a growth mind set).

Children with a growth mindset show increased motivation in class and were more likely to get better test scores than the fixed mind set group. The fixed mind set group did less preparation before tests than the growth mind set group. While the difference in test scores may seem obvious when observed this was not the case for the children involved.

The connection between effort and results remained hidden for the fixed mind set group. Dweck suggested that even if children have been praised for being intelligent they tend to give up if they are unable to solve a problem immediately.

Returning to my original point, as an NLP Trainer being mindful of the likelihood of some students starting from a place of fixed mind set consider how you might begin loosening up this potential mental block to learning.

Create stories, metaphors and examples that gently challenge fixed mind sets before introducing interventions. When encouraging students include praise and feedback that promotes the growth mindset such as sharing how you worked to develop your skills by practicing and revising.

Perhaps even more important, teach your students about this concept directly so they can begin to consciously and unconsciously make internal shifts that will help them both personally and as an NLP Practitioner.

Nov 07

NLP Trainer Skills: Using peripheral vision

On our NLP Trainer’s Training one of the first things we “re-load” is the use of peripheral vision. This technique is introduced initially at Practitioner level and yet many Practitioners miss the value of this skill set.

Working one-to-one with a client, sensory acuity paired with peripheral vision allows the NLP Practitioner to gather data about the client’s physiology and possible state. Using this information the skilled NLP Practitioner is able to tailor their approach to the subjective experience of their client.

Peripheral vision is employed in many other fields due to its value for data gathering (for example when I took the training in Micro-expressions this was a key component). Other applications include advanced driving, martial arts and wildlife study and photography.

As an NLP Trainer, you will want to apply peripheral vison to help you “read” the group dynamics, calibrate individuals and maintain your own “Trainer state”. web IMG_0113_edited-3

With very large audiences you will start to notice an almost lyrical ebb and flow within the group and even with smaller groups you will begin to notice who the “unconscious leaders” of the group are. Recognising the unconscious leader allows the elegant NLP Trainer to pace learning and state management more effectively. This in turn increases the level of group rapport and creates a supportive environment that maximises transformation.

To develop your use of peripheral vision in preparation for NLP Trainer’s Training we recommend the following:

  • Practice peripheral vision when working one to one. This will help you condition your abilities so that you automatically use your peripheral vision.
  • When walking in busy environments notice the patterns you observe when you use peripheral vision and then compare to foveal vision.
  • If you attend meetings or gatherings, start noticing BMIRs (Behavioural manifestations of internal representations).
  • If you are already a Trainer or regularly present, use your peripheral vision to track the audience.

At our NLP Trainer’s Training we will help you take this to the next level. If you would like to join us for a free taster session, contact Melody for details of our NLP Trainer’s Training Master Classes.